I'm a big old boy my ownself, but I have really enjoyed carrying my 3" Model 36 in a flap holster made for me by LoboGunLeather here on the forum. It carries just high enough not to be in the way when I'm on a tractor, or just tooling around in the golf cart. The holster itself is very lightweight and compact. I think I'm going to have him make one for a four inch k-frame. It would conceal ok under a slightly long jacket.