Don't overlook the Walther PPS, which is 9mm and very ergonomic and controllable to shoot and the magazine is big enough to easily get the ammunition in. Also, there are no safeties and decocker levers to fumble with. It's easy to take down to clean and reassemble.
PS - This month's American Rifleman has a section on .380 guns popular for concealed carry that you might want to look at.