Here are the milder ones my pre-24 and the NM Blackhawk like, in no particular order:

RCBS 44-250 and 4.0 grains of Bullseye
RCBS 44-250 and 4.7 grains of Bullseye
RCBS 44-250 and 5.0 grains of Bullseye
RCBS 44-250 and 6.8 grains of AA #5

Lyman 429421 and 6.9 grains of Unique
Lyman 429421 and 7.1 grains of Unique

Lyman 429421 Hollow Point and 7.2 grains of Unique
Lyman 429421 Hollow Point and 4.7 grains of Bullseye

Lyman 429383 and 4.7 grains of Bullseye
Lyman 429383 and 5.0 grains of Bullseye
Lyman 429383 and 6.9 grains of Unique
Lyman 429383 and 4.2 grains of Clays
Lyman 429383 and 7.8 grains of SR-4756

Your mileage may vary in your gun(s). These all shoot 3" or less at 25 yards off a sandbag for me.