I have a 6.5" 500.
When different caliber handgun recoil is being compared it's important to consider the weight of the handguns in the equation.
The 500's are big handguns. That metal mass dampens much of the "sharp" recoil felt with the smaller calibers but adds to the weighted "push back" felt with the 500.
Many people who don't reload don't realize what an adaptable and pleasant caliber the 500 can be to shoot when powders like Trail Boss, Unique and others are available for reduced loads.
The best suggestion I could give about a 500 purchase is if you are in the least bit recoil sensitive and you don't reload, needing to rely completely on available hot factory ammo, don't buy a 500.. Reloading permits us to tailor-make the ammo to fit our recoil tolerance level and usage needs, all for 1/3 the cost.
The 500 is a wonderful caliber but not for the new or occasional shooter, or those who don't reload or have access to a friend who reloads, IMO. Like the smaller framed
light weight magnums, it is an excellent tool for its intended purpose but not a "fun" gun to shoot all day like many others...
