I don't think mine is too heavy at all. If you have a good belt and the proper holster you will carry it in complete comfort. Even N-Frames can be comfortably carried in a strong side belt holster.
The most difficult issue is the concealment. If worn outside the waistband you need to make sure the covering garment always covers it. It's a lot easier to keep concealed inside the waistband.
If you have the proper equipment and dress around it you'll almost forget it's there. At least I do.
Jim