Gee Snubbyfan, You looked a little bit like David Carradine.
Hair a bit darker, but otherwise ....

OP: At least two posters have mentioned the R word-relationship. I have found, having been on both sides of the counter in my varied part-time careers while balancing at least one full time job, that the easiest way to start that relationship at a gun shop is to spend a little money.

Don't have to buy a gun, but just about anything, cleaning materials, a little ammo, snapcap, just about anything will show them you are a "customer" not just a tire kicker.

If you want to go back to that store, I'd try spending 5-20 bucks on something and see if the attitude doesn't change then and, most importantly, the next time you come in.

I also try to learn the clerk's name that waited on me, then use it in greeting him the second time I go there.

Works for me, but I realize YMMV.

Bob