I won't join the battle in what is the right thing to do and what is wrong. I think just about every possible opinion has already been expressed. However I am grateful for the OP and all the members who took the time to answer and all those who took the time to dissent. And if all of the posts were carefully read, I think it will be pretty clear to almost anyone on what to do or what not to do regarding this issue. This thread is a great example of why I love this forum.