I have carried my SD9 for a year now in a FOXX IWB tuckable holster. I know what you mean about the butt end of the gun poking out, to combat this I tuck my shirt in and with the natural gathering you get from the tuck it provides room for the handle to be hid. If I wear it with my sirt untucked it does poke a little more, but most likely no one will be looking, or know what that poke is. It certainly is not in the shape of a gun. Get a good leather/kydex hybrid holster and try tucking or other methods of dress and it will work great for you. Great gun, great to carry, at times a little heavy, but always comforting.