I have found that good grips help a lot with "J" frame snubbies. My daily carry is the 642 and I am currently using Crimson Trace LG 305 grips.

If I weren't using Crimson Trace grips my other choice would be Pachmayr Compac Grips. Here they are on my SS Bodyguard:



These grips are positively comfortable and will go a LOT towards giving your "J" frame "hitability".

They may not be "pretty" but just remember what Grandmother used to say, "Pretty is as pretty does"!

Dale53