I have shot +P and standard ammo of course in both my Sig 938 (9mm)and BG 380. As far as kick goes the +P is not a choice of mine, the extra does not warrant the pain in my hand for me at least in my opinion.
As far as daily carry guns, I switched to my BG 380 as my daily carry and I forget I'm carrying it except for the reminder of the dual magazine pinching me on the other side. Total of 21 good reasons a BG 380 is effective, if I cant stop em' in 7 shots I don't need to be carrying my gun for what it's intended for DEFENSE.