Depending on the need my favorites are :

Concealed carry - Kahr PM9 - to me the trigger feels very much a smooth DA revolver.

Full size carry - Browning BDM -feels and shoots like a High Power but with a decocker DA/SA

Neither has an external safety but rather DA trigger (at least for the first round in the case of the Browning) which I prefer being a revolver guy.

Then there is also my Springfield EMP.

Just my 2 cents worth.