I am in a similar situation with OP. I have a wife and two daughters therefore my weapons are locked up(kids). My wife has become anti carry for some odd reason and has been able to convince one daughter the same. My other daughter shoots with me all the time and has no issues with carrying. I live in a rural setting where police are 10-15 minutes too late and always am armed when outside. When inside I carry when I think she/they won't notice. I realize this isn't perfect, but I really can't justify a divorce over it.