My wife doesn't usually concern herself with whether or not I happen to be armed, most of the time she doesn't know and doesn't care. Last night was different. It was about 9PM and we were on our way to her sister's house to let her dogs out (she is away for a couple days). She lives in a rural area and we got a report that the police had some kind of bad situation on her road. Someone running around with a shotgun, police searching the area, etc. My wife actually asked me if I was carrying, I said "yes", she said "good because the dogs would've had to wait til morning otherwise".
I can't say whether you are nutty or not but I do know sometimes the situation dictates.
Turned out to be some kind of stand-off further down her road, the only people running around with shotguns were the police.