I'm thinking that one of these days, I will try to share this link:

Concealed Carry Tactics to Neutralize a Home Invasion

It BASICALLY said everything I said (and what many of you have said also) but it's not me as the one saying it. Which sometimes helps. The problem is, of course, how to present it. If a person is sufficiently close-minded enough, it can seem that there can be no "right way" to broach a subject.