I prefer the 38 special between the two because my 38 special revolver is a 357 in a 686p. Now that I'm getting my CHL I'm going with a j frame for conceal carry. I like being able to exchange rounds between the two. Easier to stock ammo and I like the versatility. I like this video because it does a good job of demonstrating what I have found to be true for me with practice. I'm more accurate with the revolver after taking the time to get used to the platform, and I don't feel like I'm giving anything up to my semi autos for civilian self defense. I believe the revolver to be more reliable especially when considering the potential for muzzle contact that would jam an auto. Both are great choices, and simply a personal choice but I don't think that a revolver gives up anything to an auto for the everyday Joe.