I'm a big fan of Pachmayr Compac grips for my j-frames. The grip covers the frame on the back and that's made shooting my Airweights much more tolerable.

I'm still looking for good speedloaders, though. HKS speedloaders just don't work well for me with j-frames. I'm considering trying a Jet Loader, though. Looks a lot like the spring loaded Safariloand Comp III model, but the handle is a bit shorter.

Until then, I'm stuck with Tuff Strips for my j-frames.