Hello, you should be proud your wife wants to carry!! Some don't,
I agree about her picking gun of choice, I had the same problem a few years ago, I have 3 j frames didn't like them many k frames, didn't like them, out of all the guns in the world she like a LCR 38, a 9 shield and her favorite is a mp 22 compact/ go figure
She purse carrys the shield with a green viriden laser.
Good luck, I tried to make this find a gun process something that we did together and I made it all about her! ( the hardest part )
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