I am in your camp. J Frame in the pocket carry is my default. The ability to grip the revolver without others being aware and the security is hard for me to give up. I sometimes appendix carry when driving.

4:00 o'clock is supposed to be the informed way to carry but I only use it when working on the farm and carrying a field revolver. I never use 4:00 o'clock in town.

Thats a nice looking holster. Maybe you can use for a field holster?