If you want to shoot the lighter bullets , 125 gr or less , just don't load them up to full magnum potential . I'm not saying in the 38 special range , just leave out full magnum loads and you should be fine .
My favorite 357 load is either 7.0 grs of Unique or 7.5 WSF with a 158-173 gr cast bullet . It's a great " mid range " load and my " everyday " carry load . Regards, Paul