Different strokes for different folks. To me nothing is as easily concealed as a little .380 pocket pistol. I have carried a Kahr P380 for years which is reliable and with a good pocket holster simply disappears even with light summer clothing. There is nothing wrong with packing a J-frame if you are comfortable with it. In fact, I infrequently do so but, it is a bit more bulky than my Kahr. I know many LCP owners who are very pleased with them, The OP should have contacted Ruger C.S about his problems. They have a good reputation for quickly making things right.