The American Rifleman did a story this past year about this very subject and women when given a choice overall didn't choose a j frame. I carry and like my air weight but my wife hates it on the other hand she doesn't like an auto either her favorite is a k frame 3 inch ,she shoots pretty good but she isn't a gun person .i say give women a choice just like us guys they are individuals and each makes different choices but kudos to you for at least giving the subject serious thought.