Thanks.
I found out the the instructions route was useless. I was easily able to remove the action by using the original S&W way. Pull the action back. Turn the lever down. Slide the action forward, and pull the trigger. Worked perfectly without screwing around with that tiny (easily bendable or breakable yellow rod inside the pistol.
What a stupid design.
during cleaning, I put a drop of oil inside and outside (behind) the takedown lever. Moves like butter now. Wow, I used every weapon up to the TOW missile launcher, M2 Ma Deuce, and Grenade launchers, etc. I NEVER had so much trouble stopping a weapon.
I could do all those in the dark, without any issues!

Thank you both for the words of wisdom, and experience!