And do a lot of practice where you pick a spot, close your eyes and aim the gun at that spot , then open your eyes to see point of aim.
I feel that learning the point of aim helps get you back on target faster, than trying to muscle it to stay on target. For me at least. I can muscle a .357 j frame up till the 4th shot, by the 5th I've lost my grip. Now I shoot with more relaxed arms, but a very controlled bounce. Like swinging a hammer from the very end of the grip.Dunno, hard to explain.