..."will shoot her when you guys give me the ok on her!"

No one here can assess the safety of your revolver. It is probably ok to shoot , but it is your call - unless , of course , you have a gunsmith check it out for you. I'd be reluctant to spend any more money on that gun than you already have , whatever that may be.

The turned down , stepped barrel , which results in increased space between the ejector rod (which no longer has a lug to lock in to) is ... unusual.