The 9mm in a revolver is a great idea..........

a lot more energy than a 38 special and less recoil than a .357.

You just need to know how to go about it.

Many years ago Speer came out with the number eight loading manual and on page 354
it shows a picture of a 125 grain soft point that has a large deep cannelure, that prevented bullet jump.

One just needs to load the correct bullet for the job at hand in
the weapon type used.