My last ex (yes, yes, more than 2, less than 4) had an AMT .380 when we met. I recollect that it was a mite heavy for its size and had a really difficult trigger. I stayed away from it. Her gun; her problem. She was a grown-up Texas lady so I never interfered in her business.
At one point, I did buy her a used, Wells Fargo turn-in, 4" Model 10 with a heavy barrel - she wanted a "trunk gun" in case she got car jacked/kidnapped. I was happy to let her have that for whatever purpose she wanted.