Not sure what problem you are having but a grip that fits the 4056TSW will also fit the 4013TSW & Shorty 40, & vise-a-versa.

I have all three models also.

All I can suggest is that sometimes new grips are extremely tight to get on the first time & require some cussing to help them along.

Again, all three use the same grips & magazines.

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