Depending on the need my favorites are :
Concealed carry - Kahr PM9 - to me the trigger feels very much a smooth DA revolver.
Full size carry - Browning BDM -feels and shoots like a High Power but with a decocker DA/SA
Neither has an external safety but rather DA trigger (at least for the first round in the case of the Browning) which I prefer being a revolver guy.
Then there is also my Springfield EMP.
Just my 2 cents worth.