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10-11-2010, 10:43 AM
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another update on my personal matter
Dear Smith and Wesson Forum i have made a decision regarding the personal matter that i posted about recently i am going to ask my lady friend out on a lunch date. if she says yes then we will see how the first date goes and go on from there. If she says no then i will take it as a sign that she and i are meant to be just friends. i would like to thank all my friends here at the Smith and Wesson Forum for there advice and help in this matter. sincerely and respectfully mg357 a proud member of the Smith and Wesson Forum.
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10-11-2010, 11:38 AM
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Establishing true "Friendship" is a must, before a meaningful relationship can have a chance to develop. To consider your significant other as your best friend, is to have everything.
It's a privilege and it should be honored as such.
Good Luck.
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10-11-2010, 11:54 AM
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I wish you all the best!
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10-11-2010, 10:36 PM
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"Faint heart ne'er won fair lady" but for crying out loud, take it slowly. Don't be creepy and spill your heart out on the first date. If she goes out with you a few times and never again, you tried. If it continues, keep it on the down low for quite a while.
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10-12-2010, 02:11 AM
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Fortune favors the foolish. Remember that wanting and having are two very different things, be careful what/who you ask for, you may get it/her.
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10-12-2010, 11:15 AM
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If it doesn't work out, you can't be "just friends"...you have to cut it and move on...you can only be friends with a women you have absolutely no interest in...like some of my aunts and uncles who are just friends, even though they've been married for years.
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10-12-2010, 07:40 PM
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Ive been faced with the same scenario ONCE. Made the move and well..... never seen her again haha. After they say no, they start to feel bad and uncomfortable around you, because she will know what youre thinking and how you feel. If you have that much confidence in yourself and feelings then go for it, but remember you may never be "friends" again, just an acquaintance. Then after that youll see you guys will never talk and both usually move on........ Life stinks! 
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10-12-2010, 09:15 PM
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Best of luck to you -- hope it goes well. If/when you go through with it, DO NOT under any circumstances tell her you sought advice from a bunch of social misfits (myself included) on a gun board -- she needs to know that your actions, like your feelings, are 100% you.
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10-13-2010, 08:51 AM
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Be sincere - above all be sincere. If you can fake sincerity-the world is your oyster.
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10-13-2010, 08:57 AM
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Ditto on what hoppes said.
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