I have been fighting Missouri 44 Elmer K Hi-Tek ever since I bought them. They too are 18 hardness and it does not matter what I do with them, they lead. Where in the barrel and how much depends on how hard I'm driving them, but I have been completely unsuccessful in getting the stop leading completely. On the other hand, their 12 hardness "cowboy #3" work perfectly.
I asked for advice on many forums and the overall thought is...they're too small in dia for my super redhawk, and too hard. Fixing either of those issues would probably fix the issue...sadly, Missouri doesn't give the option to get them in a larger dia, so I have to go softer, thus the CB #3.
Sadly, I'm mostly just out the $$ I spent on the harder ones...but you live, you learn.