After realizing my wife would not feel comfortable with the very hard trigger pull on the new 351 PD, I got advice to buy the Apex J Frame kit and did. Of course there was a good youtube video on installation and so I was able to put it in. Major difference, now a very normal pull, shoots great, will become her carry gun soon after a day at the range. She is 71 and slight of build so a gun with less recoil is what she needed. The 22 magnum with Hornady critical defense will serve her well.
I still am puzzled as to why S&W makes the pull almost unbelievably heavy.