Lightning the recoil spring to make it easier to retract the slide? And risk battering the frame during the rather brutal (compared to hand cycling) recoil?
Sounds like you're not manipulating the slide correctly and trying to use the weak "pinch" or "sling shot" method.
Reach over the slide with the support hand, thumb pointed toward your chest and grasp the slide with the meat of your hand and three or four figers, not just one finger and thumb. Push-pull with both hands and release. A 6-year old should be able to cycle the slide this way.
Sorry my other hand is holding the camera!
-- Chuck