The trick to loading the mags is to set it on a table and insert the cartridges using your strong hand with your thumb over the back rim to push the cartridge first down, then back.
On the other hand, the Uplula is a very good tool.
BTW, having a magazine sit with a full load does not "break-in" the spring. A spring gets worn down by being cycled so you need to load/unload to get it to soften a bit. The best way to do this is to shoot a lot.