Hello, I have been looking for grips for my gun, in a ok k or pink camo, but can't find any at all. I just got this gun and I am
Assuming I can change the grips or even the lower if I need to. Any suggestions are appreciated!

Thanks.

You can't just "change the grips" as they are part of the frame of the gun. I don't think S&W makes different color frames for the SD9ve. You may be able to find different color adhesive overlays. I know Talon Gun Grips sells a tan colored grip for the SD (I know this because I just bought a set of black Talons for my SD). There are other grip tape manufacturers that offer different colors.
Another popular option is Cerakoting it.

As mentioned above, grip overlays is pretty much the only option for polymer pistols or getting a complete new frame as far as changing the grip color.

The other option is to get the pistol duracoated or cerakoted. Those paints are resistant to gun oils and solvents unlike your average paint one can get at the local auto parts store or hardware store. With the exception of brake or engine paints but most people aren't interested in the colors either of those paints offer for firearms use.

The frame of the SD9VE is molded plastic, and the grips are not replaceable. However, as mentioned above, Talon Grips makes a,good rubber grip that adheres to,the plastic one, giving a much better grip and a slightly changed appearance.

Tractiongrips does, too, amd they offer any number of camoflage, flag, military insignia, etx. grips..

Might want to check out Mad Custom Coating. They do custom gun paint jobs.

Ok great thank you!

Overlays as mentioned, Traction Grips offer a wide variety.
Have them on a couple of my pistols. Original and lamb skin.