While I have never seen a "new in box" example with a mixed color hammer/trigger combination, S&W is known to be very "frugal" in terms of usage of parts when needed. So, I wouldn't use the term "always".
Typically, yes they match.
There are numerous 3Gens out there from police turn-in that have been properly serviced. Doesn't make them bad, but the finish detail of said parts may not match perfectly. The bead blasting can vary on some batches of parts too.