I am a woman with small hands and recently bought a S&W 41. The OEM grips were too large for my hands so I ordered the Herritt Trainers which I just got. There is no way to access the slide lock tab since the top of the grip butts right up against the tab. Has anyone solved this problem? It is certainly usable but being an NRA Instructor I like to have the slide locked open to be sure the gun is clear when first taking it out of the bag. Also, I think I saw where someone came up with a sort of solution to the "impossible to budge" safety. Any ideas about this? Love this gun. It makes you look good for sure! I am using iron sights , standing position. Anxious to try the Venom red dot that came with it. Oh, the Trainers are very nice too. Thanks