Didn't feel this simple question worthy of the Competitive shooting forum, so I thought I'd ask here.

I have the grip, and stance down, but trigger pull is still puzzling me.

In DA, when I squeeze the trigger, the pistol slightly torques no matter how firm I hold it, and the front sight moves. if I squeeze the trigger and 'stage it' for a brief moment as if shooting SA, I can realign the front sight on target and complete the trigger pull. But is this method a feature or a bug for me to use?

Since I grip high on the revolver, I tend to pull from the bottom half of the trigger with the front pad of my finger. As some of my S&W triggers are smooth, my finger tends to slide down there anyway. Is this ok?

Seems if I try too hard or relax too much, I can't get consistent groups. I can get a good groups of 2, 3, and sometimes 4, but then I start getting flyers. Trying to find that "gun zen" moment where I can hold it all together for all the shots.