The grips are Hogues.
Given that you have been out of shooting for 25 years, you could sure have done worse.
You surely know that these guns are capable of much greater accuracy. If you try them out on bullseye targets shooting single-action, you will be able to refine your skills and realize the guns' accuracy potential better. But you seem able to hit someone across your living room under combat conditions.
Your wife is wrong. Welcome back to the world of shooting!