Welcome to the forum, WSCJonathan. You too, FranklinD...
Well..... I've gotta think if 7 or 8 shots aren't enough for a home defense situation you may have a real war on your hands.... but having the extra security of a speed loader or two full of extra ammo is always a plus.
Choosing between any L or N frame is a truly difficult choice for anyone with experience with both frames. I own both and they are equally capable of handling the hottest 357. In the end it will be which gun fits and feels best.
Let us know which you choose.....