A number of years ago a good friend (so I thought) gave me a choice between her continued friendship or the person I was then going out with. My response was that before she told me that she had already made the choice. I haven't seen or heard from her since about Sept '87. I guess no loss on my part.
It wasn't one of the marriage type relationships but still I didn't care for being given that kind of choice and it showed me where I stood in the relationship with my friend.

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Lynnie, Professional Pest