You may or may not know that this thread is really touching a nerve with me.

I had the final ultimatum last February when it was "Get off the computer or we're getting a divorce." I was in total shock because of the long history we had and I thought the marriage wasn't that bad, all in all. But as I said before, ultimatums are actually already not in your favor or they wouldn't have been thrown down in the first place. It's just an excuse for them not to look like the bad guy.

But it still hurts that they would have such little respect as to do that.