So let me get this straight.........posting what my friends and coworkers tell me is "just" hearsay, so it should just be ignored? Would it be better if they wrote it down? Maybe had it notarized?

Do you hang around with a bunch of pathological liars? I work with, and deal with people I can trust with my life, but I guess I should ignore anything they tell me, because they're probably lying, is that it? If it didn't happen to me it's apparently all a load of BS.

Never mind. You seem to have missed the point.