Thanks for the info! I picked up some 110 Hydroshock today (low recoil) and ordered the Nyclads online to try. I'll see what shoots better in my hands (and my wife). This article:
Ammunition For The Self-Defense Firearm
doesn't mention the Gold Dot 135 Grain? Is the article legit? Was that round manufactured after the article was written? Any other articles on self defense rounds for .38 special I should read?

Thanks again!