Three divorces in our "close" family.
(Close enough for us to watch the details)

In all three cases, the couple eventually got back together.

In all three cases, the couple lost a fortune of money.

Make sure you can not make it work, no matter what you "think" it might cost.

Making it work is cheaper than a divorce.

Every divorce we have seen ruins the couples future, all savings are plowed into lawyers.

Sorry for your situation.