There have been many good suggestions. I have found the Walter CCP to be very easy to rack and shoot. The PPS M2 is another good one. I would choose a heavier small revolver than the lightweights and would stick with S&W, Colt or Ruger. The trigger is very important and I have found that if your gunshop has several of the same gun, the triggers may vary. Also once you choose the gun, check out some of the reduced recoil ammunition that is becoming more popular. Good luck with your shopping.

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