The Cornered Cat is Kathy Jackson. Then there's Melody Lauer at MelodyLauer.com and her archived amateur blog at Limatunes' Range Diaries | The opinions, trainings and experiences of a wife, mother and woman with a gun..

Tamara Keel (View From The Porch) generally writes smart things, the smartest of which being not to ask her about what/how your wife should carry, because she walks around in tactical/CCW/rangeday shirts all the time.

Annette Evans wrote a decent thing over on Pew Pew Tactical: Best Way to Conceal Carry for Women: Holsters, Purses, & More - Pew Pew Tactical.

---

Other than that, seriously, don't pick stuff for her. She's going to have to carry it, so she has to like it and have confidence in it. And if she's going to carry, it's probably better if she starts getting in the habit of reading and studying and researching things herself. Maybe it makes her more interested in the subject. Maybe it reveals that this is just a passing fad that she's not going to expend a lot of time or energy on.