For grease I like Lucas or Loctite Viperlube and I've used copper or nickel anti sieze in a pinch. I've used TW25B but it always separated and became watery for me.

For oil I like a thicker viscosity oil like Hoppes Elite, Break Free L&P, or Mobil 1 5W-30. I tend to stay away from thin oils that don't stay in place like RemOil.

I may be crazy, but I think the container the product is in makes a difference. If the container doesn't seal well or the grease not able to be applied correctly, I tend not to keep it in the range bag or cleaning box and it might keep me from buying it again.