I'm wondering if folks here might have suggestions about the state of the art on .357 Mag defensive ammo. I carry a K-frame (3" Model 65), and while I know the conventional wisdom has been that 125 gr. is the way to go, it isn't a joy to the shooter to practice with. I am sensing, however, that there's been updates/improvements in technology re bullet design and recoil for lighter, shorter barrel .357 applications, and so I'm hoping to get some suggestions of rounds to try. (I am aware of the view that too much .357 in a K-frame can be an issue for the gun itself; I can deal with that various ways.)

And yes, I know the answer often is to use 38 spl. or 38 spl.+P. While insight on those would be useful, I'd also appreciate answers on the .357 Mag.

Thanks.

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