Try this Barami Hip Grip. It makes your j-frame disappear and you forget it's there. I'm wearing my j-frame now, sitting in my LazyBoy. I've used these for 30 years or more. They're cheap at around $25. I have three or four sets of these grips. Have never broken one. They are great.
http://www.baramihipgrip.com/hipgrip.html
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