Remington 125 gr Golden Saber 38 Special +P
Winchester 130 gr Ranger Bonded 38 Special +P
I like both, but the Remington has significantly more muzzle flash and probably not the best choice for low light. But, in my estimation, these two were the best performers in Lucky Gunners Ammo Lab tests.
I would not give the prosecuting attorney that easy of a case against me. If I were you I would use someone's factory ammo. You do not want to hire Massad Ayoob to defend you. He's expensive!